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We're not here to follow trends—we're here to build something timeless. We believe every conversation has the power to create connection, every story has the ability to inspire, and every person deserves a place where they belong. we're building more than a community—we're building a chosen family. Together, we create the world we want to live in—a world rooted in authenticity, compassion, unity, and belonging. A world where no one has to walk alone because we've chosen to show up for one another.

What hell is otb?

It’s a lot of things because we are not just one thing.

Close-up of  multi-ethnic community hands stacked on each other, painted with various vibrant colors representing equality, unity, and belonging.

We Exist to connecT

Together we create the World we want to live in.

Book titled "Notes to Myself: Things I Wish My Younger Queer Self Knew About Life" 75 thought-provoking reflections.

Order the book that started it all!

This book contains 75 thought-provoking reflections on life that I wish my younger queer self had known. It is a meaningful read for any young adult questioning life and seeking new perspectives. It is also an exceptional resource for anyone reflecting on their own life’s journey. We deal with so much internal conflict without much support, keeping quiet instead of connecting. We have other choices!

I want this book to serve as a guide for those whose family support, for whatever reason, looks less traditional. For the children who aged out of foster care, the individuals whose families left them behind, and those whose loved ones never truly had the opportunity to know them. It is for anyone searching for belonging, connection, and a chosen family.

I see you. We see you. And we are here for you.